Supporting a Partner Who Collects: Finding Balance and Harmony
- jodeserrano
- Oct 7
- 1 min read

Living with a partner who collects or hoards requires patience, understanding, and strategic approaches. Here's how to address the situation while maintaining a healthy relationship.
Understand the Psychology
Before attempting changes, recognise that collecting or hoarding often stems from:
Emotional attachments to objects
Fear of waste or loss
Anxiety about future needs
Sentimental connections
Perfectionist tendencies
This understanding helps guide more compassionate and effective solutions.
Establish Boundaries and Zones
Create clear agreements about:
Designated spaces for collections
Shared living areas that must remain clutter-free
Storage limits for different categories
Regular review periods for collections
Safety and accessibility requirements
Seek Professional Support
Consider working with:
Professional Organisers who specialise in collections
Therapists who understand hoarding tendencies
Support groups for families of collectors
Professional appraisers for valuable collections
Remember that change takes time and patience.






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